How ironic is it that my last post (many many months ago!) was talking about abandoned blogs, and that I hoped to continue writing on this blog throughout the academic year, but instead: I did abandon it. You might be thinking that because I haven’t been writing on this blog, I have not constantly been trying to improve. In fact, it is the opposite.
The reason I had chose not to write on the blog was so that I could focus on my studies and take full responsibility for my learning, and eliminate all distractions. All of this would help me to develop and improve as a person. Now that I’ve completed the second academic year of my degree, I can confidently say that I have definitely become more independent, more responsible and more proactive in all areas of my life and I have maintained these changes.
Revisiting some of the ideas from the last few blog posts:
- Pre reading – This is something that is fairly difficult to do if a topic is new to you and if nothing has been recommended because you may not always be aware of the depth at which you need to be familiar with the topic. But, where the topic has been covered before or if it is a topic of interest to you, this is particularly useful in re-establishing a foundation or even, just developing your knowledge.
- Extra / post reading – The difference between “pre reading” and “extra reading” is that pre is something that you do before in order to familiarise yourself with the topic, extra is something you do outside of what you’re taught. Again, I’m somewhat of a sceptic, simply because it is difficult to gauge the depth and breadth at which your need to research, in order to gain extra marks in an exam.
- Opening my own savings account and owning my first debit card – This has been so useful in my life, and has allowed me to become a lot more responsible for my own money, thus teaching me budgeting. However, sometimes: I feel that when your money is in a bank and you are paying for it by card, it’s not sometimes fully acknowledged that you are spending your own money. I’ve also stopped carrying cash and this is a bad habit. This is an area that I definitely need to improve on, for example: perhaps using cash for day to day expenses (such as: lunch and snacks from the uni canteen), and using cards for bigger purchases (such as: restaurant lunches and shopping) and establishing a weekly spend limit.
- Summer / part time job – I am about to restart this job and it is so useful to have a job that I can go back to at any time.
- Revision plan – Okay, I’ll be the first to admit: I’m hopeless at following specific plans, and they take forever to create. But, I’ve taught myself a routine to structure my learning, for example: after the lecture, I will type up my notes, but if they are too long: I will just go over and highlight it. I will then read through the notes and highlight it over the weekend. I will also then add to the notes by doing some further research, also over the weekend. I will then create revision tools (such as: flashcards, diagrams, tables, videos, recordings) over the holidays. I will also continuously work on projects that are due in at the end of the year. After a whole year of this, I am happy to say that I stuck to it and it worked.
- Gaining more control over eating and exercising habit – This is another one that I can’t seem to consistently work on. For a period of the year, I was very in control of my diet, where I’d have a salad (with meat) for lunch. But, I found that this was not very filling or perhaps, as tasty as my normal lunch, so I bought chips every lunch time. Not only was this expensive, it was also counterintuitive. With regards to exercise, I just didn’t have enough time, because I had university pretty much from 9 – 5, I commute on a daily basis and I had revision to do outside of uni. This is something that I will strive to pay more attention to in the future.
- Finances spreadsheet – This was so helpful at first, because I didn’t really spend a lot, but when you spend, transfer money and receive money on a daily basis, it becomes very tiresome to document. Instead: I recommend going through your monthly statement, and have a look at where all the money is going and then, pick areas where you can improve on (for example: walk an extra 5 minutes to buy my daily crisps and save 20p per day, thus saving £22 in one academic year or avoiding impulsive and expensive make up or clothing purchases based on the latest fashion). Every time you buy something, I’d recommend using the following questions: “Do I need it?” “Do I need it now?” “Can I get it for a cheaper price?” “Is it worth the money”
- Driving – While I am still somewhat clumsy and hopeless at multitasking, I have significantly improved in my ability to focus and automate habits (such as: checking in the rear view mirror every so often and gear changes) and be in control of the car in expected situations (such as: a sudden light change, the car in front suddenly slowing down, an overtaking car, a car that changes lane etc). But, what I feel that I need to improve upon now is focusing on the road. It’s funny how driving comes so naturally to me that I forget to focus on the road ahead and therefore, have delayed reactions to new situations (such as: a speeding car coming around a corner or a congested road, where there is only space for one car to drive down it).
So, the message of this blog post is to always keep your goals in mind, even if you’re not actively writing or talking or even thinking about it.
I’m starting to feel as though I’m running out of inspiring advice or interesting topics, so please drop me an email or a comment to let me know what you want me to write about.